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Go Wrestle!

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Childhood is filled with play. A significant part of development is creativity and imagination.  The homeland of play is found in the brain. Creativity and imagination fueling the games we play. Games that allow us to grow and expand our awareness.  When I think back to my childhood, I think of how every day was filled with play.  It’s the one thing that stands out the most. My siblings and I, we played from the minute we woke up until we were forced to go to bed at night.  

One of our favorite games was wrestling. We would stake out the family room and each of us would get a corner.  We based the wrestling ring on the wrestling shows we would would watch on Saturdays.  Back then TV was black and white.  So the wrestling wring was made of stark contrasts.  A stark white platform contained by thick black rubbery ropes that the wrestlers would bounce their muscle bound bodies off of and propel themselves to the opposite wall of ropes or to leap on to an opponent.  When we made our wrestling wring in the family room, we created the wring in our imagination and then instructed each other what it looked like.  

“Here are the four corners”, my sibling instructed as we placed markers made of a bundled sock, a book, a cup or an abandoned toy at each corner to create semblance of a large square.  

“This is your corner and this my corner. I will count to 3 and then say go and then we wrestle”, she commanded, as older sisters often do.

I thought about it, about my opponent. How strong was she? Was she really going to wrestle me? Was I going to hurt? Could I pin her down?

I didn’t know, but the challenge felt inviting and I imagined myself as the big, muscle-bound, weird looking, but awesome character, that I had seen on the Saturday wrestling show.  I couldn’t wait to experience what if felt like to be in a live wrestling match and live inside the body of that unusual human. 

We took turns counting down. My sibling got to do the count down first because she was older. 

“3, 2, 1, go!”

Sometimes we would sing the theme from Batman as we moved towards the center of the wring.  We would circle each other and then lunge.  Pushing with our strength, holding back at first and then realizing that we had to put forth maximum effort to find the best hold.  Then once we realized it was working we would pin each other to the floor.  We practiced somersaults and flipping each other.  We tried one handed wrestling and blindfolded wrestling.  Our imagination had no boundaries and we would create new scenarios for an hour or more playing the game of wrestling.  

I can’t even imagine what our parents thought as we yelled and hurled our bodies around the family room. Once I asked my grandmother what she thought.  She smiled quietly and said “It looks like fun” and then laughed.  I guess we were entertaining after all. I wondered how we could get on TV and if people would like to see our wrestling matches too.  For that’s what being a child is,  thinking that anything is possible. The skies are the limit. 

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Cat Fights and Work

I heard snarling and ghastly howl come through my window on one beautiful sunny day in the middle of my work week, sheltering in place and working from home. The type of day where just walking outside and standing in the sun under  blue skies blanketing the earth, created a sense of peace and well-being.  Who could be screaming and howling? Creating drama like this in the middle of such a beautiful day?  The street was sleepy and quiet, there was no wind and even the palms were  stilled from their usual swishing and swaying in the gentle afternoon breeze.

I rushed to the window and peeked through the blinds. Three cats were positioned in a circle in my front yard. Their  backs arched and their hair standing on end creating spiky war Mohawks.  There was an old, tough looking orange tabby. His fur was smeared with dark grease and dust from the alleys and back yards.  There was a huge plush Norwegian Forest Cat with green eyes and then a short haired gray and white tuxedo cat. They hunched down, tense, cowering letting out a sporadic moan, or howl.  They cringed and slowly slunk away from each over the course of several minutes.  Eventually, they backed down and slunked away, giving up the fight. Dispelling all their plans to engage in open, violent warfare with one another.  

Our kitten watched from the window. Did he remember his last fight? When he was only 3 months old,  a random alleycat had delivered deep scratches and bites. His recovery consisted of  three visits to the vet, pain meds, antibiotics and wearing a cone for six weeks. He healed well and seemed ready and wanting to jump into the fray again. They kept coming around even jumping on to the outside ledges of the house to look in at him through the windows.   I bent to look out the window and a tabby glared in at me and howled. I was somewhat offended.  What gaul, to hiss at me while I was in my house!  I stepped away and went back to work.  The mornings carried on like this. Cats venturing into our yard, random howls and screeching, heralding spring and the time for cats to emerge and stake out their summertime turf.  Territories the would be filled with adventure, mating  and languishing in the hot days to come.  

Made With Love

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Maison Clairvoy 

One of the greatest gifts I ever received were my dance shoes from Maison Clairvoy. The shoes themselves were not gifts and the cost was deducted from my salary that I earned as a cabaret dancer. The gift was the opportunity to have dance shoes made by hand with extreme precision and skill to fit my foot exactly and provide a strong base to dance from. A fit that was meant to cradle the foot in comfort while withstanding and supporting an enormous amount of torque and pressure created by human muscles and mass to perform athletic movement.  Dance shoes created by one of the greatest artisan workshops in the history of the world. I was lucky enough to have two pairs. One for the Can Can and one for the more elegant numbers with feathers and rhinestones. 

When I arrived in Paris, to work exclusively for a well-known dance troupe,  one of the first things my dance director instructed me to do,  was to go to a local atelier and have my dance shoes fitted. We were rehearsing in an underground theatre.  It was a dark, cavern of a space, dank and musty. An old wooden stage took up the center of the room and was surrounded by low red velvet settees for the audience. Crystal chandeliers strategically place to capture light and reflect sparkling drops of shimmer and illumination throughout the room. One early evening, directly as rehearsal ended, our manager, walked towards me. He was a man of little words. He looked like he had stepped out of a 1940’s old Hollywood film, dressed in neatly pressed slacks and clean, crisp shirt.  An ever-present cigarette dangling from his fingertips. Smoke drifting up in misty curly cues into the blackness of the low ceiling. I quickly took a deep breath and inhaled the mysterious smoke. I wanted to take in everything I could about Paris.  Everyone smoked in the city and I wanted to understand why. I knew I had to try it- to know what the Parisiennes knew. To  find out why they loved smoking so much. The smoke was a mixture pure, unadulterated tobacco and somehow, men’s cologne. 

“Hello Darling, you will need dance shoes, here’s the address and give them this bill.”

“Do you think you can find it?” “Your dance captain will give you the time, place, name and address of the shoe maker.”

He handed me two small printed sheets of paper. Once I had the address, I found my way via Metro and my small tourist map of Paris that I keep with me at all times. The map listed the streets and arrondissements and favorite things to see and do in Paris.  Maison Clairvoy was not too far from where I was staying in Pigalle, The Red Light district.  Many of the touring dancers were booked into an auberge, well known in the dance world, in the heart of the entertainment district. The first  Parisienne cabaret, The Moulin Rouge, had come to life and still existed in this very location. It’s Red Windmill nestled among business offices, laundries, boulangeries and patisseries. Veg stands and charcuterie specialists.  Working Parisiennes from all walks of life moved carefully among the narrow sidewalks making sure to miss the dog poo that was everywhere.  The odors that rose up from the sidewalk were heady and odoriferous concoction of dog urine and feces, butchered meat, rotting veg, baking bread and perfume.  It smelled awful but I grew to love it and now decades later,  I can still smell it, just thinking of it.  Beautiful tall dazzling workers hung about the  corners of the Rue, 24 hours a days, in dresses, miniskirts and platforms.  Their faces blown up with injectable silicone and made up for any excitement that came their way. Wary and defensive towards the young girls they were attempting to emulate. But kind and helpful if you were really were in distress.  

I don’t know how I found myself navigating through a part of the world where I didn’t speak the language and it was completely foreign to me. As I remember, I was practical about it and I wanted to dance, so I figured it out. It wasn’t too difficult to understand the language or read it.  The French used the same alphabet as the English.  I found the store front with dance shoes in the window. There was a door next to it that led up a flight of old stairs.  I climbed up the stairs and was ushered into a workspace where cubbyholes stuffed with dance shoes of every kind lined the walls. A wave of warm air infused with the perfume of soft, fine leather came towards me and enveloped me.  An older gentleman greeted me. He was dressed in courdoroys and a pullover. He called his assistant over. A youngish, impossibly thin, chic woman dressed in black stovepipe slacks and a white button down work shirt.  He gave her instructions in French and motioned for me to follow her. She smiled and led me to a bench. I was quickly seated and she measured my foot from all angles and then had me try on samples of an open toed sandal with heels and and a closed toe tap shoe.  When I touched the shoes the softness of the leather was like butter and shone as a if someone had massaged the strong leather for hours to attain the beautiful sheen. The heels of each pair were solid and strong and anchored in a way that would last through years of punishment as they carried me across stages in Africa,  Europe and Scandinavia and then back home to United States.  I glanced around the workshop and saw many types of shoes for many types of dancers.  The fitting was over quickly and  I was on my way again and left the workshop.  I left the shop with a feeling of privilege to have experienced something so rare and romantic.  Knowing that I had officially entered the world of dance. The world of the Ballet Russe, The Moulin Rouge, The Lido.  I had been to the source.  Two weeks later my shoes arrived. I slipped my feet into my very one handmade dance shoes and they fit perfectly. They cradled my feet in the all the right places and felt like a solid hug from someone who loves you very much.   And then we were on our way to start our tour. Those shoes became an extension of my body and allowed me to jump, twirl, kick and land with force.  Once I had to have the straps replaced, but otherwise they withstood years of aggressive use.  A testimony to the enduring and exquisite craftsmanship of Maison Clairvoy. 

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Tea With A Zen Bully Dog

Who do you like to have tea with? Your friends, your child, your parent or maybe just yourself? Or better, your pet?  Tea is about relaxing and reveling about life. A time to drift and dream, converse and create. Tea is a ritual that we create that suits our live and gives us joy and health.  Tea is many things; a medicinal tool, a treat, a door to spirituality and creativity. Drinking tea starts with heat and water.  Two basics intrinsic to human survival and sustainability.  Next comes the gear we choose,  teapot, teacup or mug. Then the tea itself and then the chosen setting.  Last and most importantly, the choice to have company or not. I find the company that we keep while taking tea is fascinating.  

Sometimes there’s no one around.  This happens a lot for me since I work and have a pretty busy schedule. So, when I sit for tea, it’s usually with myself.  Recently, while exploring ideas for tea sets, I came across a new idea for sharing tea that has originated in China.   I had happened on some lovely clay teas sets from China and noticed cute little clay figures placed strategically on tea trays next to the teapots and cups and mixing utensils. The figures were of dragons, frogs, buddhas and different animals.  Most of them were smiling and had round  smooth surfaces giving them soft appearance.  I decided to research these cute little guys and was even more enchanted after reading about them.   These cute little figures are an integral part of the art of taking tea-known as Cha in China.  Their lucky owners embue their clay companions with spiritual meaning and find them good company for taking tea.    They are quite the rage among tea drinkers and there are shops that have showrooms stuffed with teapets in a range of sizes, materials and colors. The teapet is supposed to bring luck to it’s owner. 

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I love dogs and I found this really cute tea pet that looks like a sweet, chubby pug. I call him a Zen Bully Dog Teapet, because he looks incredibly relaxed, without a care and appears to be  watching in quiet earnest the goings on in his surroundings. To raise your teapet you pour hot tea over your pet and give it a good drink. This conditions the teapet and your pet will  develop characteristics that are unique to your method of raising your tea pet and the tea he absorbs over several sessions of tea with you. 

Tea pets originated in Yixing, known for it’s beautiful clay.  This clay is utilized to make many beautiful objects and in particular gear for tea. Teapots, cups, platters and all kinds of ceramic objects. The clay can be purple, red or green and is usually not fired during production, creating a porous surface.   The finest tea pets are brought to life in Yixing.  There’s not a lot written about tea pets, no true history passed down through the ages that is accessible here in the United States. You will find shops in China Town stuffed with them, but very little information. Dragons represent fertility, buddhas-compassion, kindness and spiritual enlightenment, and a cat represents good luck. 
 
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My tea pet is a Zen Bully Dog because once I fell in love with a little pug and this Zen Bully Dog looks so much like a pug.  The bully dog is a clever and spiritual companion that forms a close spiritual relationship with it’s master or mistress The Bully Dog always stays near and offers companionship and understanding. When joy is in the air, bully dogs whirl and play.  When sadness falls from the sky, the bully dog will snuggle close and offer his soft body for stroking and releasing emotional pain.  The bully dog is truly Zen because he is always in the moment and completely in love with life and world.  He’s at peace with the now and offers compassion and kindness to all. It’s a known fact that owners bond with their tea pets.  Spending significant alone time  and sharing tea consistently will create a lasting friendship with the little clay canine that represents love, companionship and undying friendship.  

I sat down to tea.  My beautiful carved, wooden tea tray lay before me with all the essentials. On the tray lay a clay teapot, a steaming carafe of spring water filled with minerals from a spring in the mountains near my home.  There were two teacups, a tea filter, a jar of tea,  scooping utensils and a mixing tool. There was my tea pet. The sleeping bully dog reposed with a smile upon his clay lips.  He rested peacefully. I wondered when he had his tea, would he leap up and play? Of course, he slept peacefully-a symbol of rest and contentment. 

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