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The Flea

Headed out to the Rose Bowl Flea last weekend. It was a glorious Southern California Winter day. The Air was crisp and cool and the sun shone clear through blue skies. Fluffy white clouds floated overhead and drifted on the light breezes. The drive was uneventful with just about three slow and goes on the interstate, but the drive was worth it. I arrived on Seco Street and pulled into the line that led to parking. Once the line moved and I was positioned to enter parking, I was able to cut across the green expanse of lawn and find a great space fairly close to the entrance. The grass was soggy from the past weeks of bountiful rain and mud oozed through where heavy cars and trucks had pulled in and down the rows to find the best parking. The Rose Bowl; designed by the great architect Myron Hunt and completed in 1922, rose above the tents and flags. A white coliseum for modern gladiators. A huge neon rose embelished the cement facade. It’s proportions were perfect and graceful and the building was set out at the base of the canyon in the center of nature. Those architects of the newly settled California had loved nature and sought to place their creations within the center of it.

I got my umbrella for shade and my bag for any goodies I might find and marched up to buy my ticket. The venue was filled with people out for an exciting and fun day filled with anticipation. People were out to explore and to look for vintage treasure and funky clothes that you could only find at a Los Angeles flea market. Just watching my fellow human kind was entertainment enough. We humans came in so many shapes and sizes, personalities and characters. People were dressed in all kinds of gear. A couple; impossibly thin and chic ambled by dressed to the tee in Rockabilly style. Their outfits consisted of matching rolled Levis, studded belts and immaculate western shirts. There were gorgeous women who looked like they had just hiked out Laurel Canyon. Their skin pale and untanned, long flowing tresses with the perfect California beach wave, they walked slowly and floated in their patterned skirts and peasant tops. A seven foot cellist in black combat boots with four inch platforms and a kilt had stationed himself in front of the bowl. He serenaded the crowds with futuristic and dramatic compositions that echoed through the canyon walls.

I wandered around, the sun beating against my parasol, the heat settling into my shoulders. Vintage was everywhere and it was more than enough to make for at least two full days of shopping. Thousands of items, each with it’s own unique history and so many stories to tell. The fact that it was so much, created the atmosphere of treasure hunt that could be relished and allowed to slowly unfold. It was a perfect day in nature, a perfect day for relaxing and letting history emerge and entertain.

He Deserves One Too

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I was standing in a really long line at a famous lingerie store and I noticed I was holding my breath. I was realized I was feeling really uptight. My muscles felt taught and my face rigid. My breathing was shallow. Catchy music play over the shoppers with a sexy woman’s voice singing about how she was going to be in love and her chosen love object would be too. The line behind and front of me was comprised of women. All the women were different and none really looking like the huge artsy images of flawless women scantily clad in a all styles and forms of lingerie that one could possibly imagine. Their bodies were thin, except they miraculously had been strategically enhanced with  bountiful and voluptuous curves.  Their stomachs were muscular and taught. Their facial features perfectly symmetrical and skin like a dewy peach. It was amazing, because I don’t think it really mattered. We all wanted the lingerie anyway. We were all kind of immersed in a world of beauty, music and heavenly sweet perfumes. I decided I better relax and enjoy it and started deep breathing. Focusing on my breath, diligently counting, I relaxed. The bright colors lifted my mood and were joyful. Everyone was having a great time in this store. It was exciting and fun to look at the gleaming displays and the clever combinations of fabric and lace. Women laughed and giggled together as they pulled out daring see through concoctions. Other women held their husband’s hands and pulled them through the aisles, their husbands with dazed and happy faces absorbing the overflowing femininity.

The sales staff were young and wore outfits from the stores line. The shop girls were energetic and willing to help you find your size or lack of and talk about the state of fashion and why was everything made so small nowadays. Not that they had to worry, but they were kind and commiserated.




I let myself become immersed in the experience and welcomed the entertainment. It was a great break from the serious job of nursing. Here I didn’t have to worry about accurate doses and finding just the right specialist. This was all play and fun. I watched moms as they followed their daughters, commenting and encouraging. As I pulled open a wide black lacquered drawer, the drawer slid out effortlessly and an array of gorgeous satin and silks in every hue of the rainbow peeked out. A daughter and mom stood next to me oohing and awing and this time the daughter was encouraging. Her mom chose a pair of glittering silver satin briefs. “Mom, yes, you have to get those, good choice mom!” Her mom, laughed and popped the briefs into her store bag. “I’m glad you’re getting with it again, Mom!” I guessed mom had been through something. A failed relationship? Sickness? Death of loved one? Who knew? That was middle age, my age. You never knew what was next. One day you could be sailing along and then a hurricane hit and ripped your sails to shreds. Hopefully, you could get up again, so far I did. And I hoped everybody did. My neighbors, my friends, all the people in the world. I didn’t want anyone to be overcome and not feel like they couldn’t get up and try again.

Something as simple as a bright happy store was helpful and encouraging. It bust through the cave of a bad experience and created light where the light had been snuffed out by a life trauma or bad news. Life went on and people had fun. You could choose to relax and enjoy the show or lock it out and continue down a dark path. Of course, it’s not as easy as just walking into a fun underwear store. There are so many kinds of depression and ways to overcome it that this story could actually be a book; and yes, there are so many books about the subject already. But I regress, because this story is about a store and people and how it means absolutely nothing, but can mean very much depending on the individuals experiencing it. It gives Kudos to the corporate world and Madison Avenue advertising executives who develop and contrive these businesses that entertain people. Of course, it’s business, it’s to make money, but isn’t it a wonderful way to do it? To bring joy, excitement and hope to so many people and doing it all with just silky, pretty underwear.




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Many women will gag at this concept, because they believe that products like this objectify woman and promote a certain treatment of women as sex objects. I can’t really say that they are wrong, but I just don’t like to waste my energy getting mad and prefer to see why it works rather than why it shouldn’t work. And maybe some corporation, someday will create a store like this for men. That would be a really fun store. I can picture it now, hard rock blasting over the speaker with huge posters of gorgeous athletes modelling all kinds of form fitting designs. I think everyone would love it and then men could stop having to buy their personals at large boring chain stores with house cleaners and construction materials. Why shouldn’t they have a special store too? Why shouldn’t they have fun too?